IGHTBIRD delves unflinchingly into the complex dynamics of revenge suicide in abusive relationships, laying bare the manipulative tactics and emotional toll they inflict. The author’s honesty about her own upbringing, her missteps, and self-blame makes her story relatable and deeply moving. It is a testament to the idea that we are all in the process of re-authoring our lives, as the author undergoes her own transformation from a person shaped by trauma to a compassionate healer.

   This memoir will resonate with anyone who has struggled with self-doubt, shame, and the quest for self-acceptance. It has a must-read for those interested in the psychology and trauma of revenge suicide in the context of domestic violence and the human capacity to overcome, to transform, and to grow out of our trauma, that our past need not define our future.